Hi BigMac, there is something about a WAW who wants to be close to you. My W recently moved 10 miles closer to me, and that is close enough (she is still 15 miles away from me.)
Can you imagine if she brought another man to her place, and you have to see that? If you think that you are emotional now, just imagine the pain that would cause. Give her space, stop talking so much to her. And detach, detach, detach. My 2 cents worth. Good luck