Not sure if I need some 2 x 4 or what but with little communication with my W, I need to optimize my verbal interactions with her. My Physical interactions, I think, show my changes, 180's and GAL's but I think I need something more. What, however,is my quandary at the moment.
You are 14 months post-bomb-drop, and almost 3 months post-serviced-divorce-papers, and your main concern is how you "optimize your verbal interactions with her" ????
I was only TWO months post-BD with my wife, and I honestly cared not ONE WHIT how I was "coming across" to her . . . only that I was doing everything to protect myself and my kids.
Why are you still so enmeshed with your wayward wife over a year later? What am I missing here???
