Thanks Starsky for going all the way back to the beginning for me.

All the vets have been so kind to do that and have given great advice. I think for the most part I have tried to follow it but maybe I could be doing a better job.

I am very hopeful still about my deal but I feel a bit stuck at the moment.

Not sure if I need some 2 x 4 or what but with little communication with my W, I need to optimize my verbal interactions with her. My Physical interactions, I think, show my changes, 180's and GAL's but I think I need something more. What, however,is my quandary at the moment.

I have no anxiety anymore if W wants to talk(very rare)but don't want to force something that is not there yet.

My IMC has told me to observe my W and be patient. I am doing that but it gets frustrating at some points


Me 47/W 34
T 16 M 13
No kids
BD 6/2013
W asked that I move out 6/2013
I moved back and W is upset with this 12/2013
separate beds not much talking
Served D Complaint 5/2014
W moved out 9/27/2014