Thanks Joe. And it is great to get advice from a guy, I think most of my friends are female so they don't really get how guys think if you know what I mean.

Thanks again for checking in with me, and I think your cupcake idea is a good one!

Me: 34 H: 30
M: 4 years
BD: 6/15/14
He moved out 6/30/14
OW1: EA then PA after BD
Now he's dating multiple OWs
I'm over it and moving on.