You don't want to come onto W gangbusters and smothering her with YOUR emotions, YOUR words, and YOUR pain. Shut it. Leave it be for it is a natural flow that should occur organically...not forced.
This is a genuine show of respect for W by giving her space to process her emotions and pain. Trust me...there will be a time for you to show intent to make sincere amends with W. Now is not the time because she's very, very emotionally raw with having her dreams dashed, feeling less than a woman because YOU aren't satisfied with her sexually, and discovering that the man of her dreams cannot be trusted at all.
How's that working for you?
Back off. Work on YOU. What are your plans for this week/weekend?
