You know your situation best. If you've gotten good results by not being there, then that may be the way to go. Just remember when you do interact to show him things that speak his language. Hang in there and hopefully a vet can pop by and give better advice than I can.


Me: 34 W:33
T: 10 M: 6
S: 6 D: 5
BD: 5/14
Still together(ish)
Not giving up: 7/14
D talk has slowed, a lot.
Gradually working on things together. Still separate bedrooms.
Slow and Steady wins the race.