I, being the crazee person/MLC-er, set YOU up (being the loved one) by doing despicable things until YOU snap and act insane yourself...VOILA!! Then, I have my justification for my behavior. SEE!!!! You ARE crazeeeeeeee. I have every reason to drink, sleep around, act the cad, etc...
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson