He does seem to have a victim's mentality, which seems incredibly self-centred. But as one of the vets say, you can be right or you can be happy. He should want to do these things, but he won't. Maybe we can spend the time figuring out how to get him to take responsibility. But it'll never be as satisfying as him seeing the error of his ways and starting to do right...
Just a thought!
M:37 W:38 No kids Together since 2006, Married since 2010 EA discovered 06/07/2014 W moved out 06/08/2014