Hi there - in the last text you did drop a "I don't know why we're apart", but the rest of it was reasonable. If you talk about it again, you could stay away from R aspect, and if he wants to discuss his approach with the kids, simply reiterate that he is co-responsible for their well-being, and you don't want to manage this for him.

Also, if you go back to DB, is there a 180 that you could think of to get him to be more actively involved with the kids? As discussed in the chapter with the anecdote about the husband that kept sitting down for meals with his shirt off?

..just a thought!


M:37
W:38
No kids
Together since 2006, Married since 2010
EA discovered 06/07/2014
W moved out 06/08/2014