MY TRAGIC WAW STORY PART III

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Thanks Thorn however I hope you are sitting down for this update!

WAW came over last night and spilled the beans. She is seriously thinking of coming back! She slept here last night! I can't believe this is happening actually...I NEVER thought this day would come! We talked about her "fog" and she described how confused she was. Her description matched what all of us have been discussing here about our sitches. She agreed that we probably shouldn't have divorced so quickly. She admitted she never expected the court date to come so quickly. She said she wasn't sure what was going to come of the OM fantasy and she didn't want to humiliate me so that's why she left before she explored the OM avenue. However things did not go well with them as I told you. She is still moving to Florida but it seems she is doing it more out of oblgation now because she's already made arrangements to do so. I told her it's probably not a bad idea to be apart for a couple months or so just to make sure we are both ready for a full reconciliation before we get back together too quickly. Telling her about DB'ing indirectly as I have really made a difference. She says she's so happy she understands why I "got over" her so quickly...the real reason. She said she is so proud of me and she thanked me for being even better and stronger than the man she fell in love with 18 years ago.

This is all surreal to me this morning and I can't believe this happened! What a difference one day can make! I never thought she'd come back. It just goes to show you that no matter how cold and heartless a WAW can be, it is the result of their confusing fog they are in. She really seems to have done some research on WAW Syndrome as she understands what she was now...what was going on with her. She admitted that the "grass is always greener" is so true. She said she is so, so sorry for all that's happened but that she was so confused and "lost."

She sent an e-mail this morning thanking me as well for last night. So we'll see how things go for now but I just had to come tell you all about this absolutely SHOCKING news! I am still being careful because I do feel a bit like "Plan B" since things didn't work out for her with OM...but since she initiated all of this I am just taking it all slow...one day at a time. We even talked about stopping the divorce and seeing if we can cancel it but since she's moving away for awhile we may just let it go through. We both agreed it's just a piece of paper and doesn't really matter.
So I will keep you posted but WAW is clearly on a high after last night and she keeps referring to me as being even better than the man she fell for 18 years ago. This is just unbelievable and even as I write this I can't believe what went down yesterday and last night. I will keep you guys posted! For now I need to digest all of this!