I would think just a simple "Would you please transfer this bill to your own account?" would be sufficient.. but then I feel like I need to add a "by X date" because otherwise there's no timeline for me to check in again by. But if I set a deadline then he'll feel like I'm "pressuring" him to do it on my timeline (which is another reason he was unhappy). BUT, we did put in our written agreemnt that things would be done by a certain date, and they are not. So maybe instead it could go something like: "We had agreed that you would transfer these bills by X date. When I see that they are not transferred, I feel stressed, because I need to know that my finances are squared away. You mentioned you had trouble transferring things because your computer isn't working - is there anything I can do to help with this?"
Me:30 H:29, no kids T:12, M:4 (when D was final) 12/13: "Don't think I want to be M anymore" 6/14: Separated (I move) 1/15: H filed for D 5/15: D final
