I gal with the boys today, we went to a free playgroup run by the local primary school, the boys had a ball and I got to socialise with other mums. we went to local bakery for lunch and the park in the afternoon. We hung out at H's place for the day, as I was looking after them while he worked, and I didn't want to confuse them by bringing them home for the day and then taking them back round to h to go to bed. H has been acting distant since yesterday, did thank me again for helping out over the weekend, which I told him anytime, that he would do the same for me. He seems unhappy, says he's tired, but you're not with someone for 10 years without picking up on stuff. I asked if was ok, he said tired, I left it at that. Not my role to push the point anymore. We have the appointment with the school councilor tomorrow morning, it's just h and I meeting her tomorrow, then we decide on the best course of action to take for s7, how much do you tell the c? I would like her take on the ow an h wanting to introduce her to the boys, but I don't want to rock the boat with h u necessarily, he said he respected my opinion, and I guess my only option is to trust that he will honor that.