DB, you need to calm down. Marathon, remember?

Think about what you just said... Not being heard was one of her major complaints about you. Now, consider ALL your actions in the last 2-3 months.

What evidence have you given that you do hear her now?

What can you do going forward to show you hear her now?

Your opportunities will be few for a while. Practice really listening to others and see what you learn.

I'm glad you had that good exchange. Bask in it a bit. You're getting great advice here.

Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.