Thanks so much for checking in with me and giving me that nice pep talk. I thank you for saying that my situation is not that drastic. I am still being over dramatic aren't I? haha. Well, I guess that is my excitable personality.
I have checked out the 5LL. I would say his top 2 are Quality Time and Physical Touch while mine are probably Words of Affirmation and Physical Touch.
Interestingly the other night when we were fighting I reached out and touched his wrist and he started crying. But maybe it was also what I was saying at that time, I can't recall what that was.
If his primary love language is quality time, how would I have quality connection with him when we are not in a R? I guess I have to think on that.
At this point my only option is to disappear anyway so not much I can do.
He still needs to come by to pick up all his stuff. It might be today, might be another time. Since I need to go dark/NC I guess I should not be here when he comes to get stuff. Any thoughts?
Hugs, LisaB
Me: 34 H: 30 M: 4 years BD: 6/15/14 He moved out 6/30/14 OW1: EA then PA after BD Now he's dating multiple OWs I'm over it and moving on.
