Yeah, I'm still kinda freaking out. I'm not sure what I wrote was validating enough. She needs to feel seen and heard by my messages, right? I'm not sure I validated her anger and confusion enough. How do I help her feel fully heard and understood again?

I know...Patience. But, still... Not being heard was a major complaint of hers about me.

Me: 39 - W: 35
Together: 2 years, no kids
My Affair: 1.5 years
Affair ended: 4/9/14
Affair revealed: 5/19/14
Last Contact: 8/2/14