Yea, Mat. Sorry your night went as it did. I agree, do NOT send that email, ever. Not as it is written at least. I am positive some vets will chime in and concur. I know you probably feel as there are a million ways you could have restated something, or said something different, and you probably feel that if somehow you could get your point across the way you wanted, it would make a difference. It will not. Remember, there is nothing you can say to change her mind. Actions are what work.

So hold off on the email for a bit buddy. I know it stinks, but when your emotions ease up a bit you will be glad you did not send it.


Me: 42
W: 32
Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
Recon #1: 11/13
A discovered 04-03-2014
W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me
I filed D 12-02-2014
S 05-31-14
Divorced 5-19-16