Ats,

H went to IL's for Easter this past year, the first time alone. It was days after BD. My IL's said he seemed fine and normal. I asked hem at the time, "And that doesn't concern you??? Do you think he SHOULD appear normal after declaring he wants to end a marriage????

They got real quiet.

Yup, we're both so new to this mess. Sounds like we have quite a long "sentence" to serve. I'm so grateful for this board and the wisdom shared. I hope to learn enough to pay it forward one day.


M44, H44, both M before
M4 yrs, T6
BD 7/13 ILYB something isn't right with me
H att suicide 2/14
S 4/14
OW disc 5/14
D final 4/15