I'm not detached enough! I'm actually jealous of my kids getting hugs and kisses and "I love you" from H. They also get to "date" him this week. I need more single friends!

I'm struggling with seeing H everyday. I don't really want to suggest he move out officially since that would not help the sitch, but I seem to be "stuck."

All my friends that are local are married with their own families so trying to go out in the evenings is too tough, plus I seem to have the kids EVERY night. I do start a marriage crisis support group Thursday night. I'm really looking forward to this. It's at a local church and this specific group is for wives...maybe they will be looking for a free night too.

Off to bed, actually get to be distracted and occupied tomorrow smile

Last edited by Atsbaby; 08/04/14 02:20 AM.

Atsbaby
M:36 H:35
T: 19 M:12
S:11
D:9
BD: 5/4/14
Proof of OW 8/13/14-love note from her
8/19 admits OW
8/22/14 files D w/o telling me
9/20/14 Says he wants to reconcile