Lisa Dear, my thoughts have always been with you and I am happy that you are finding your strength. The things you've done and said recently to your H is done. Wether they are right or wrong no one knows, but you needed to do it and that is that. There's always a chance he'll bounce back, but that hope you should not cling onto and let it run your life now. Just let it be and detach. Like you said, it's time for you to do like mad nc, 180, gal etc... You've found your plan and path towards happiness now...for yourself. You should realize how far you've come in this journey. You have your dignity. I am happy for you. Stay your course.
