Now you have to follow your words with actions. Personally, I would not have sent the letter, but I understand why you did. Main reason I would not have is it takes away some of the 'mystery' as to why you went NC and what you are doing while NC. And that mystery is an important factor in the NC having an affect on your WAS. But, no rule is set in stone, so best of luck with it!!!


Me: 42
W: 32
Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
Recon #1: 11/13
A discovered 04-03-2014
W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me
I filed D 12-02-2014
S 05-31-14
Divorced 5-19-16