Thanks Dan! Last night h came up to the rest. that i went to w/co-workers. We all had a really good time laughing and one guy told me over and over that i made the right choice by marrying h and another said that h is really cool and that they really bonded. So much for h being shy anymore!!! This is awesome! He used to be so reluctant to be around my co-w's or church friends...
I still have a hard time believing that h is kidding sometimes. We can both be sarcastic, playful, obnoxious, mouthy at times. But, I know I am always kidding, but a couple times I questioned him. He told me he was just playing and was fearing that I was taking things too seriously. so, i put my happy face back on. He said ily again while we were there!! I talked dirty to him a little in his ear. I keep reminding him that the 3rd year anniv. is leather. **chuckle chuckle.** He says, "yeah right," like he doesn't believe that i will buy something leather to wear...little does he know...
Super bonus!!! Ya know the rich girl & her fiance? well, they had invited us to their wedding in Hungary, and I was joking-i said, "I asked h if we could go, and he said no." (like we could really afford it.) Ff's fiance said, "there are nude/topless beaches..." h said, "even if there weren't, I'd still like to go," like he doesn't even give a flyin' fart about the nude beaches. Woo hoo for me! and yuck for her. I know I would feel uncomfy if that were my fiance talking like that to other guys. I don't think it is polite or respectful, but my h IS!!!
we're supposed to go out-out tonight...hopefully after he and maybe i nap. He seems tired and sore. thanks dan for reminding me to empathize w/him. You are absolutely right. I have asthma & cannot always do aerobically what I would like to & have to be left behind sometimes and it SUx!!! I hate to feel like I CAN'T do something!!