I understand. But that is why they warn LBS from reading too much into the actions of a WAS. She was being nice, relatively speaking, and you took it to mean more than it was. Then your expectations got crushed, and you got emotional and angry. Now she retreated. Does not mean you are done, it just means you have to work a little harder. She needs to see a person she would want to spend her life with, not be told you are that person. So think about what kind of guy she would want to be with and be that person.
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16