Hey TL, sorry for disappearing on ya. I've hit a little bit of a rough patch since H returned from his 5 week vacation in Spain (it's on my thread), but NOTHING like what you've been going through.
Whoa, he's really acting out - you're smart not to try and 'fix' it for him. He put himself in this situation, now he can get himself out. And just like the others who have posted here, keep that computer/paper trail. Personally, I think he's drinking before he does what he's been doing, a little drunken roaring, so I don't think he'll do anything physically to you or the house. On the other hand don't let your guard down.
Like cczamo said, keep posting often so we know you are ok - just little posts like, "All's good!" or "I'm okay." Don't be like me and disappear for two or three weeks. You'll have us all in an uproar!
Hope everything else in your life is going well. ((()))
Me 59 H47 M12 T22 No kids BD&S Apr 2,2013 - ILYBINILWY Filed 2/12/14 OW 11/13 The Universe always strikes you at your weakest point because that’s what most needs strengthening." – Joseph Campbell