Of course she refuses. She is in a fog. She is being very selfish. And she does not care what you think. All our WAS think this way. You should have already been prepared for this line of thinking. Which is why they say believe none of what you hear and only half of what you see.

This is also why detaching is so important. It allows you to avoid these types of emotional blow ups that set you back. Think about it.

Keep doing what DB says to do and you will find yourself in a much better place. Even if it is without your W.


Me: 42
W: 32
Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
Recon #1: 11/13
A discovered 04-03-2014
W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me
I filed D 12-02-2014
S 05-31-14
Divorced 5-19-16