This morning, I get looped into a conversation on twitter scheduling a poker game. I have to give my standard reply "W and I are separated, we have been best friends for 14 years, and I hope to be best friends for the next 14"
W then follows up with a text to me asking a favor, for me to bring some of her jewelry, clothes and camera's with me when I drive the car out this week. I reply to her that I don't think there will be space. (setting boundaries, and not giving gifts .. thanks Sandi2)
A couple hours later she calls me while I am at the store, asking me to rent a room in the house next door (the place she has been renting from). I told her I would think about it, but I think I want something a bit closer to downtown and then chit chatted about the bunny and trip. Then told her I had to go and hung up.
So, question. My gut feel is that I don't want to see her every day. But then the room is closer to the kids. I was thinking about renting it for a couple weeks, just so I don't have to worry about having a room in town, and then bouncing to a better place when I get it lined up.
Thoughts? Is this her wanting me to close, controlling me? testing boundaries? Actually being nice?
Me: 35 Her: 33 D : 16 S : 9 Together: 14 years Married: 12 She left 4/14/2014 Separated: 5/25/2014 OM Confirmed 7/2014 She filed 8/7/2014 I Filed 10/21/2014 Divorce final 2/12/2015
