W comes homes around 7:00 pm I was in the spare bedroom napping.
She went into her room so after about 20min I got up and left to go buy a book.
I came home 2 hrs later and she was still here so I went downstairs to read.
She was doing Laundry and on top of the washer waiting to be washed was a bag of Mens clothing I am assuming the OM's.
I was taken back but held my composure. I went about reading the book knowing she would be up and down the stairs.
I received a message from friend and she said to try to keep the lines of communication open. I guess this friend didn't understand when I said there is no talking I really meant there is NO TALKING. But I figured I would give it shot since W would be right behind me and it would keep me from getting upset about the clothes.
I asked how my step FIL is doing and she answered then I asked another question and she answered. She then proceeded to tell me she wasn't feeling well must have been something she ate. This whole time she is loading OM clothes in washer. I was sitting lower so maybe she thought I couldn't see and really I couldn't but I knew what was going on.
I know this is very disrespectful but if I bring it up it probably wont gain me any ground and might cost me some.
Am I being too much of a doormat? Should I be saying stuff about these things that bother me to her?
Like I said I don't care if she stays or goes but I want the road home to paved smooth if she leaves plus I have to be civil with her at the moment so she signs the refinance papers allowing me to have a loan in my name only but still keeping the deed in both of our names for right now.
Could really use some advice right now.
Me 47/W 34 T 16 M 13 No kids BD 6/2013 W asked that I move out 6/2013 I moved back and W is upset with this 12/2013 separate beds not much talking Served D Complaint 5/2014 W moved out 9/27/2014
