I'm trying to get back to focusing on myself and letting go of the results of our little email exchange this weekend. I'm REALLY GLAD I didn't pounce on her and try to CONVINCE her of anything. That does show a little growth (or at least an ability to ask for help and get great advice).
In rereading her email, I'm not sure how much it is a reaching out as an olive branch, and how much it's seeking finality and closure. I'm so concerned it's the latter. My worry consumes me. She's so "sane and classy" (and proud and stubborn) I could see her simply wanting to leave things on a higher note because she had been so angry the last time we communicated a month ago.
Is it silly to maintain hope?
Last edited by DBinSF; 08/03/1402:15 PM.
Me: 39 - W: 35 Together: 2 years, no kids My Affair: 1.5 years Affair ended: 4/9/14 Affair revealed: 5/19/14 Last Contact: 8/2/14