I read your response to my post and it is mind blowing how your wife used the same language as mine did when this started. How things would be better, how the kids would be happier and so on. It is also scary how some other family member(s) are really controlling the divorce.
The best thing I can say so far in my case is that it is not working out the way my wife envisioned it. Happy land did not suddenly appear. My three daughters now live with me. My youngest told a friend last night while we were all in the living room playing video games that she would be living here for at least three more years. She is planning on living here with me till she graduates from high school. I guess I am not the psychopath to my daughters as my wife tried to make me.
I hope your situation will improve in good ways. We can both sit back and let our wives spend their families money on lawyers and we don't need to lift a hand to help them.
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