I've been reading your posts and wanted to reach out and say that I understand your situation. I lived through something similar with my wife. She is pretty abusive.

I had to move out. I won't hijack your topic with my story but I'm really lonely and can't go home. I know you understand because you are being verbally abused like I was. Because I left I can't go back. If I do it validates my wifes behavior. I have a sinking feeling she is never going to ask me to come home.

I really hate my life now. I hate where I live. I miss my home. I miss my dog. I miss my wife. I miss my old life.

If I could go back in time and change all the bad decisions I made that got me here I would. I wish I was in your shoes. You are still home so you can change your circumstances.

It sounds like your are dealing with a wounded animal. And you are the person who hurt her feelings. You had an emotional affair, blabbed all over town about what a b----h she was, got people to unfriend her on facebook, and after you came clean about it you got mad at her for getting mad at you. Then you threatened to divorce her.

Dude, seriously. She sounds like a wounded animal. Wounded animals are dangerous.

Unless you want to be living in a one bedroom apartment next door to some punk who has his friends over at 2 am and only see your kids on the weekend while some lowlife your wife starts dating sees them the rest of the time...freaking start treating your wife with some respect.

How pissed would you be if she had done this to you? Come on. Be honest. I think my wife is emotionally and verbally abusive. But at least I understand that I'm an one messed up guy. If my wife had done half the things to me I did to her I would never forgive her.

At least I'm honest about this. I have a double standard. All men do. Lets admit it. We know our wives will forgive us. Maybe that's why they get so mad at us. Maybe they don't like it when we start to dislike them.

I don't know. But I know my wife was nicer to me before I started using the word divorce. Everything went downhill once I said divorce. The problem was I couldn't stop saying the word. It was like a drug.

You can keep doing what your doing but swear to god. How do you think this is going to end?