The last time I had R talk with my H (when he told me he was never coming back), he made the statement:

"I'll admit to anybody I'm afraid. I'm afraid to leave, afraid to stay, afraid I made a mistake marrying you, afraid to say that, afraid I'm making a huge mistake..." He had more to say, but it started to sound like blah blah blah.

I ended the conversation by tellin him he would die alone and regret this. Although I truly believe that will be the reality of his life if he never snaps out of this, it is truly the only thing I regret throughout the last 8 months-----> not bad, considering all the things he will regret!!!! wink

Last edited by artsy; 08/03/14 03:00 AM.

Me: 39
H: 45
Second marriage for both
H left 12/2013
M:4 T:5.5