Updates: I did DB coaching session beginning of the week and W also did session Thursday with same coach. We talk more everyday but she is still cold. Went on a date last night after coach said I should ask her out. Just got some pizza at a shop as it is her favorite and came home in an hour and she went right to bed as she had to work at 5 am. Went to a family reunion today wit W and S about 2 hrs away. Had a nice time but W still acting cold when we got home. She slept whole way home and didn't say a word.. Maybe just tired.. Again went right to bed as she has to work forced overtime tomorrow. I just said sleep well and she said goodnight and went in bedroom and shut the door.
Guess my question is tomorrow I was thinking of going to a race in NJ with my D who loves racing. Problem is one of the complaints W has had in past is I do what I like to do and don't think of her,, so the struggle I have is if I GAL and go to race with daughter and detach from W am I just pissing her off cause I am doing what I love ( racing)? Or do I do a 180 which is not go racing and spend time with her when she gets home .. Detach and do what pissed her off before, or try resolving and not detaching as hard.... REALLY CONFUSED
