D3 told my W what I'd gotten for her from the kids and it was a huge fail. She's mega-pissed. She apparently was looking for a grand-gesture and this didn't cut it. Her b-day is tomorrow and they're going away to Portland w/out me until Monday. I can't make it up to her on her b-day at all, and I can't even begin to figure out how to fix the current mess.
Feeling hopeless. I suck at life. It's a long way to go until Xmas which is the next chance to give her a gift that's justifiable. It's not just that I don't speak her love language, it's that I have no clue how.
Me: 34 W:33 T: 10 M: 6 S: 6 D: 5 BD: 5/14 Still together(ish) Not giving up: 7/14 D talk has slowed, a lot. Gradually working on things together. Still separate bedrooms. Slow and Steady wins the race.
