Ok you're right. The point is to heal and change FOR ME, not just to get her back. If I put in my best effort, unselfishly, and it still doesn't work out, I just have to live with the consequence of my actions.
True. You do your darned best to become YOUR best self.
When you know with certainty that you've truly done this, and become the best DB you can be, then you have to turn it over to God and leave the results up to him.
Otherwise this sort of becomes about you obsessing and not processing or learning a thing about patience.
IT becomes about you NOT hearing her, not getting your way NOW, and being a bit too "young" (immature) and self absorbed. Okay?
So again, Leave the results up to God, keep doing your true best, learn some real patience, and then go in peace.
Last edited by 25yearsmlc; 08/03/1412:07 AM.
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