Barrybran, You stated this well. We have to remember, the goal is to stop going down cheeseless tunnels. Some of the rules may already be tunnels we've gone down.
Me: 34 W:33 T: 10 M: 6 S: 6 D: 5 BD: 5/14 Still together(ish) Not giving up: 7/14 D talk has slowed, a lot. Gradually working on things together. Still separate bedrooms. Slow and Steady wins the race.