I had an affair... and I want my Fiancee back

[DBinSF]

Ok, I'm freaking out a little. She's said over and over these last few months that every time I communicate with her, it's "all about me." Was that message too much about me and my process? Should I have shown more understanding of what she's been through?

I hate second guessing, but I'm so worried about misteps and making things worse.