Hi daring, FY is right about the MLC not being able to handle anyone else's problems. My W, even after leaving, treating me like crap, yelling, spewing, etc. still wants to talk to me about all HER problems. She will go on and on about her health, her dad's health, things at work....but if I say anything about my life that isn't 100% good, she will get upset and not say a word. Even when it come to the D, she seems so surprised that I can't understand that I have to do whatever SHE wants as only her life and her problems matter. Our problems are NOTHING compared to what they are going through (even though it was their choice) and if we complain or have health issues, whatever, they get angry since to them it's nothing compared to what they are going through.
Try to detach from him right now. Try not to let it get to you. Hang in there daring you'll be fine!
