Mat, although it's really healthy to acknowledge the reality of your situation, it isn't over till it's over.

I don't want to say much more than that, because I don't want to cheat you of a necessary stage. Calling a coach is a good move.

Hang in there.

Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.