Levels of DBing

[Barrybran]

Dawgy, the Rules at the top of the Newcomers thread are just a guide. At the end of the day it's about doing what works. There's a lady on the Infidelity thread who has found that her husband responds to a little pursuit. Mine, however, does not. The rules are there to get you to break the negative cycle you find yourself in and to give you a base from which you can experiment to see what works and doesn't work.