Thanks Stacey. Our initial separation period is supposed to be four months. At that point we will decide what to do next. I'm hoping that he can honor his financial commitment for four months. And keep OW away from my children that long.

After thinking more about it today I'm leaning towards not pretending like I might date during the separation. I have no intention of dating, I have my clear reasons, and pretending like I might is only to manipulate H. I don't need to go there. Any opinions about that?



"Don't look back, you aren't going that way"