Wifes severe depression, MLC, and suicide attempt

[Lifes Twists]

So this morning I sent a very short concise email to my lawyer as follow,"I have slept on this and my request is for you to send an email to wife's attorney and say that your client does not agree to the changes. Beyond that, I don't want any more time spent until wife is prepared to come to the table and work things out.

My reason is that I don't want to waste money nor carry the load of the divorce since she is the one who filed. The reason I am rejecting her changes i they just removed the clauses that protected the girls and myself if she has future issues. My plan at this point is to continue to not support the divorce but not block it either. I will continue to reject changes unless they are reasonable. I will also not allow her to phone this divorce in. She needs to come to the table and face what she has done to some level if she truly wants to pursue the divorce. I feel right now her family is trying to control the divorce from a distance. It is between her and me. I figure when her family gets tired of spending money then they will pull out. till then I will try and keep my lawyers time to a minimum and let hers spin their wheels. I am not sure this i proper DBing, but I feel is is the best course I have to disrupt the outside involvement.