Hey Lisa sorry. You're having a hard time (me too), but I think there's loads of positives in what you've said. The fact that he listened to you and he admitted he's not happy can only be good for your R? I'm no expert but it sounds to me as if there's a good chance you'll come through this together and be stronger.
Don't be so hard on yourself. And thanks for the letting go post.
Stacey x
Me - 44 Husband - 47 D20, S18 BD - Aug 2013 Moved out - Jan 2014 OW discovered Jan 2014