Kat, her anger management is non existent. She has never been able to say "I'm angry, I need to walk away and cool down before dealing with this" Instead, her inner child comes out and she strikes out in vengeance towards whoever she feels has wronged her. It's payback when she screams, yells, slaps and throws stuff. She's a classic abuser really, at work she's the queen of patience and staying cool but when she comes home...you don't want to be the dog!Her Dad was like that too. He was everybody's pal and everyone liked him but he'd come home and scream and yell, hit the mom, throw stuff...there's a slight resemblance here. Lately, Voldy seems to lose it once every two weeks when the girls are with her. She knows she needs to walk away but she just can't give up getting childish revenge on people. She thinks the whole world should exist to pander to her stress and upsets. I lost a winner, didn't I lol. The girls actually laugh at her because she's so ridiculous. D17 texted me when they got home last night (after Voldy took off on them and made them walk) "Oooh, Mommy's waiting on the couch for me...wish me luck lol".


Divorced February 27, 2012.

"Only by love is love awakened".~ Ellen G White