He has pursued me on and off, but is not currently doing so.

I don't think that I have used the DB techniques properly in all this time, but I am 100% committed to doing so now. I plan to follow Sandi's 37 rules and also speak his main love languages when the opportunity arises.

After this, I will know that i HAVE done everything in my power to make it work.


Me 33, H 34
T 15 (on and off, 7 years this stretch)
M 4
DD 3
OW July 2010, IDLY - Oct 2010

1st sep 28/5/11-14/8/11 (my idea)
OW confirmed 25/11/11 (H travelled with OW 26/11/11)
I moved out 3/12/11