Thank you for this. I know you've had just as rough a time as me these last few months (probably worse), so it means a lot that you were able to reach out. why don't you tell her that it was a courageous thing for her to do to open up to you and that you appreciate it?
You're right...I do have a lot of work to do, and your compassion and grace mean more to me than you know. I'm making a purposeful effort to understand just how this has affected you by talking to a numerous women who have been betrayed, and my work with Greg is paying off. But I know I have more to do. why would you tell her about numerous women?!! she does not need to hear this at all for it would justify in her mind that she's made the right decision since you've been a serial cheater. BTW, your work is not "paying off" for they are just empty words. You've not said one jot about her pain. Why not? Acknowledge it...not dancing around it.
My birthday was great, thanks. John and I drove a van with 5 teens all day Thurs and Fri to their conference in Oregon. Such a beautiful drive. So great to get some fresh air.
Best, E
If you want to use the proper validation tools, it is right there for you....take another look at her email and you will be able to see how you can achieve it.
Rework it some more, buddy. You're getting closer to the final one.
