I wish I knew..... I screamed at him "you don't want to be here and I am so angry with you" and he immediately grabbed me and started with the passion thing.

I so need help controlling my anger. Anyone have any tips/advice on this?

Me: 35 husband:39
Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage
Twins 5 (boy/girl)
Daughter 3
Affair bomb 2/27/14
He moved in with ow 3/13/14
OW kicked him out 6/15/14
4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction