Blindsided and lost

[stacey9]

Hi rppfl, just been reading your last few post and I think the thing that would concern me the most is the kids meeting the ow, I think it would be totally insensitive if H mentioned her to the kids or wanted them to meet her.

I live in a small town and see H and OW everywhere and it stings every time. He does not mention her to the kids and they have told me they have no intentions of meeting her.

It's so true what Georgiabelle says you are the mother of his children and you have a shared history together she will never come close to. I too am hoping the bubble will burst soon for my H.

Also wanted to add that when my H left 7 months ago he agreed to keep paying mortgage and transfer all the bills over to me. This has now changed and he wants me to pay more. He earns 3 times more than me. It seems his new life is costing more than he thought.

Take care xx