Hi bashy,
Good for you that you decided not to go on the trip or help move. My H is moving some stuff out of the house to his new place tomorrow and had the b@alls to say he thought I'd help him move the boxes.

Um, well I already packed all your junk and put it in one place since you didn't pack anything when you BD and "moved out"! I didn't want his stuff everywhere reminding me so I packed it up.

I think knowing how much you can handle is great and if you can't handle the trip then it is good you are not going along.

However I loved 25's story about the trip to Palm Springs. I'm going to keep those tips in mind, "I can get angry later". Too bad I didn't read that yesterday.

Hugs,
Lisa B


Me: 34 H: 30
M: 4 years
BD: 6/15/14
He moved out 6/30/14
OW1: EA then PA after BD
Now he's dating multiple OWs
I'm over it and moving on.