Now's the time to put your trigger goals into action. Don't let yourself spiral so you have to pick yourself up--get busy NOW!
In order to have someone be completely intimate with you, Karen, you have to be intimate with them. That means showing your achilles heel and the part of you that is vulnerable and trust them not to hurt you.
This is something I know really well--it has come up numerous times in C--both IC and MC. People look at me and think that I need noone because I am independent. But there is nothing further from the truth.
But I need to teach them that I'm vulnerable too...
If you don't let your H (or anyone else) into that inner circle, you're cutting yourself off. Let him love you the way you so want to be loved, Karen. You just have to show him that you can be vulnerable and willing to hurt to get it.
Damn, I need a beer....
Bets
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
