Also, Bea, in my experience, when Smokey felt ANYTHING uncomfortable...it ALWAYS came out as anger...
Smokey + FEAR = Anger Smokey + Sad = Anger Smokey + Anxiety = Anger
I think, not to be sexist, but it's sorta a man thing? If it's uncomfortable, then it must be ANGER.
Sorry to disagree but I am a MAN and those things do not make me angry.
At least not at this point of my life, now 20 years ago I went through an ANGER stage. Mostly took it out on customers for my business, wasn't too good for business......
So anyways I think it is more of a stage of life type thing. JMHO