Hi Debi & Betsey!
Thanks for coming over! It really means a lot to me!

Today I am doing well, but I am on day 3 of PMS headache/migraine. Ouch...it went away when I was climbing though & out w/h last night. Which brings me to:

Last night I came home from work. H & I went to his 'rents to pick up the snow blower (we got 6 inches!), he did the drive and shoveled from the drive to the dog pen!! +++
On the phone earlier he asked what I wanted to do. I said that I would like to go out-dinner and playing pool? I said it was his turn to pick where to go for din. and he said OK! +++ We get ready, he shaves and trims his beard, puts on cologne, nice shoes, and silk boxers! woo hoo! +++ Go to din, have a really good time. His back still bothering him-he says he doesn't want me to think that he doesn't want to do anything w/me (ie play pool), so we go home, eat ice cream, go to bed and snuggle.

This morn. he apologizes for passing out on me! Wow, another +++!!! Ok, if I cannot see that this man is putting effort into this, then I am BLIND!!! Where's my cane or my seeing eye dog???

We em each other a couple times today. The club was calling the big wall that i climbed like Mt. Karen and the leader wrote an email about how I was the only one to be able to make it and how bad the men felt b/c a woman made it?? My boss's boss's boss also called me into his office to compliment me and tell me some great things that my boss and boss's boss have been saying about me. (CMU!) I told h and he replied congratulating me and saying he's glad I found people to climb with. What a generous, loving man-being happy for me even though he can't climb!!

As far as I know, we are spending all week together. Going to a concert on sat. I'm very excited.

Now, to keep it together...
1. Realize that I am trying to make crazy when there are lulls in our r (quiet time...)
2. Do somethings for myself-take a time out if nec. doing one of the aforementioned items.
3. Focus on having "6" nights as trying to have "10" nights stresses me out.
4. Be decisive, take charge of myself and my own emo's, stop looking for him to do it FOR me.
5. Get rid of headache.
6. Start cooking more healthy stuff CHOPPIN' BROCCOLI!
7. Pray fervently

ttys!
karen